As soon as they (the
angels) had bought them out, one of them said, “Flee for your lives! Don’t look back, and don’t stop anywhere in
the plain! Flee to the mountains or you
will be swept away!” Genesis 19: 17
Well, 2012 is coming to a close and we are five days away
from a new year! Naturally, I've been
reflecting on the highlights and the low lights of this year. Recently, we had to let go of one our night
nurses because she was sleeping on the job.
This particular nurse had been with our family for a couple of years, so
I tried to work with her, but the problem persisted. I had hoped to replace her before her departure,
but my spirit kept telling me to release her before she put Malachi in further
danger. I had no choice but to be
obedient to my spirit. Eventually, her
shifts were covered, but in the interim, it was difficult for Maurice and I to
tag-team and cover the nights and then go to work the next day. We do what we must to ensure Malachi’s
safety. That was one of the low lights
of this year. The whole idea of looking
back reminds me of the bible story of Lot and his wife.
Two angels came to visit Lot at his home in the city of
Sodom. Wicked men surrounded Lot’s home
in the hopes of tempting him with wicked deeds.
The angels blinded the wicked men and told Lot to take his family and
flee the city for they were given orders from God to destroy the wicked
city. Lot’s sons-in-law didn’t take the
command seriously and Lot himself hesitated to leave the city. The angels grasped his hands and the hands of
his family and led them safely out of the city.
The angels commanded Lot to flee to the mountains and not look
back. Lot argued to flee to a nearby
town instead. The angels agreed not to
destroy the town and as Lot and his family fled, Lot’s wife looked back and was
turned into a pillar of salt.
At first glance, I shake my head at the foolishness of
Lot. God vowed to destroy the city of Sodom
and Lot was slow to move. It sorta reminds
me of the horror flicks when the would-be victim is being chased by the zombie-monster
and instead of running full steam ahead, the would-be victim runs, but looks
back. I just want to shout at the
screen, “Run! Don’t look back!” But, if I’m honest with myself, I’m guilty
of the same behavior; I've run but looked back too. The issue of losing a night nurse is a prime
example to reference. I knew the night
nurse was sleeping when she should have been taking care of Malachi, yet I
hesitated to let her go because there was no replacement. Malachi requires 24 hour monitoring. If his ventilator were to malfunction and she didn't hear it because she was sleeping, Malachi would suffer greatly, perhaps
even die. I wrestled with my spirit
because I knew how the lack of overnight nursing support would affect my
family; my spirit was telling me to flee, and like Lot, I hesitated until I could no longer ignore my
spirit. It has occurred to me that it’s
easier to stay in a situation that’s familiar than to move into the unknown,
even when we know that our current situation is about to implode. I think both Lot’s situation and my own
suggest a lack of trust in God. For me,
I know that the wrestling of my spirit was me wrestling with what God was
telling me to do right NOW! When I
stopped wrestling with God, I felt at peace with my decision; I felt assured
that God would send our family reliable, committed night nurses. I could let go and look forward to the GREAT
thing that God was about to do for Malachi instead of looking back with fear
and regret. I chose to be led by my
faith and not persuaded by my doubts, worries and insecurities. I chose to be obedient to God’s command.
There will be times when fear and worry will cause us to
move slowly at God’s command to GO! We must remember that when we hesitate and
look back, we fall prey to the zombie-monster; we stumble and fall and risk an
untimely fate. Worst of all, we miss the
awesome opportunity that God has waiting for us. As I prepare my resolutions over the next few
days, I am looking forward with confidence and clarity to a prosperous 2013!
Question of the
Day:
Recall a situation when the Lord told you to GO, but you
were hesitant to move. What were the obstacles? What did looking back cost you?